I wish you all to have a great New Year!!!

I hope 2009 will bring all of us the best he has!

I've decided to write some blogs on theme of relationships between a guy and a girl. First of all I would like to apologize for my possible spelling mistakes; my mother tongue is far from English unfortunately.

Today let's talk about some mean ways of getting rid of a guy u don't like/love/whatever (suitable underline) any more. These advice u can also use in a way what not to do in order to save relationships. Girls/Boys u are also welcome to add your comments. The best will be added to the blog in the "Reader's part". We girls (and boys also) feel more comfortable when we are dumped by our date, because dumping is really worse. Some friends even tell their dates the twisted truth, like they have someone, when they in reality is visa verse.

Way №1 – Say the word "relationships" as more times as possible

As a matter of fact guys are subconsciously afraid of this word; they don't even know why it's so horrible but they are already against using this word. U can start your attack with 5-7 words per day, then more and more.

Way 2 – Criticizing his appearance and all the time asking about yours

It's already 2 in 1, boys don't like being criticized (who likes?), just the thought that u don't like something in his appearance makes him crazy. How many times u caught yourself on the thought that your friend is always asking "How Do I Look?" for the tenth/100/1000/… time (suitable underline). The sum up – it's a great way of getting on your boyfriend's nerves.

Way 3 – Ex- Files

I know it's really hard to stand when your boyfriend is telling about his ex/exes, I was always thinking "am I worse than them? If so why he isn't with THEM?" Don't worry. They don't like our past as mush as we love their. Bringing up this theme is as painful as the sweet escape that will be then.

Way 4 – U love acting?

This advice is rather creative and needs some brain work. Have u ever dreamt about being a famous actress, getting Oscar? U have a great chance to try your charm and get the attention of the publicity by playing a jealous wife and next time a party animal or the icy queen. Turn on your best qualities!

Way 5 – It's never enough

U're always calling him to know where he is, what he's doing, what he's going to do, then u start discussing in details your day, your feelings, your wardrobe, the periods that had to come over 2 weeks ago… bla-bla-bla and so on and so forth… Talking … Boys aren't good at it. Sometimes they can't even describe their feeling. SO asking "Honey, what do u feel right now (about me, about us)" would be a good thing to do if u wanna dump him eventually.

P.S. If u want to keep him for some time u have to know that guys like attractive, interesting girls, he has to feel the need in you without telling him this little truth. No one likes a person who always gives way to his/her hang-ups, that always feels hurt, always sermonizes, finds faults with everybody and always looks for the attention. Leave for him and for yourself the decision about the freedom. Don't be too soft but don't show excessive rude or aggressive signs of behavior. Do anything just don't lead to the situation where he's bored. And please don't try to change him.

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Reader's Part

(Reader's experiance is needed )

It was nice sharing my thought with you. Hope u liked the blog. See u soon.

one little problem with tooth became a real disaster....

...for 2 weeks dentists have sent me from one "specialist" to another....

...my left cheek looked like a gigantic pear... it was called a phlegmon of the left-jaw-space and the under-jaw-space...

...last monday I was operated on...

.... the surgery went OK...

...now I'll have a scar on my jaw (on the left side)...

...I'm home and I feel really fine...

... at the hospital during second week I walked a lot, ate a lot, talked a lot (first 2 weeks with that "pear" I couldn't open my mouth even to eat smth so I just drank water and ate jelly and cried, it was really painful to swallow...) and looked really healthy... I made friends with all surgeons and even ogled at some of them (who were very cute )...

I didn't know that after all had happened to me I would miss them...

I've printed out my new duties and rules.

And now... can anybody explain me what is like to be an editor???

I was tagged so there are 10 points about me (for everyone interested)

1. Not so long ago I fainted while getting out from the bus and fell on flowers, I spilled 2 or3 vases with water but luckily i didn't broke anything [not a flower]. It was my second-time-faint. Feeling so gulty even now.

2. I feel nostalgia when I listen to some music from my past. This nostalgia can last for even some days or weeks.

3. God, I din't know that it would be so hard to write all 10 points!!!! My favourite TV shows are: Quantum Leap, Grey's Anatomy, Lost, Gilmore Girls, all kinds of CSI, Veronica Mars, etc.

4. I can't stand foolish people, i fell them from the distance. Just think: having a rival stronger then we are we try to compete harder, so hanging out with clever people will make us even more clever, that's how we teach

5. I have a huge range of interests:movies, music, psychology, parapsychology, pathopsychology, biology, chemistry, physics, low, medicine, criminology, religion stuf etc.

6.This summer I will spend only with my father. I wonder what it will be like

7. I have beautiful dark hair. And I will never dye it blonde.

8. I think I'm addicted to music, 'cause it always with me - when I'm eating,bathing, typing it, walk, always-always!

9. Also I love animals very much.

and finally 10. Maybe next year I'm going to London, so any advice about life there will be suitable for me.

I tag: HaveSumFaith, SMGslayer97, VaMpIrEsSuck, Didinuta, JoeLostDharma.

The second semester has begun, new subjects are now in my list and some annoying ones are far behind. I've started a new life... like from a clear page. And I'm glad to share my happiness with you. Now I really have time to participate games, chates, to write blogs and share avatars (like I've done before). Hope u'll like it, because I've prepared some funny topics for discussions and I want YOUR opinion!!

P.S. Those who stay ignorant will pay twice...:-D

I just can't believe that yesterday he was found dead.

Was he a drug user as everybody say??.......

First of all let's think about the definition of the word "happiness". What is Happiness?

Happiness can mean different things to different people. For example, for one person, it may mean life-long love, for someone else wealth or health or the ability to handle whatever life throws at him. But, as for me, happiness is an attitude to life, way of thinking about things around you. Happy people interpret the world in a different way.

So, is there some place for love in the persuading of happiness? We all can say that sometimes love can present happiness even if everything around is breaking, falling, dying, in the moments of deep sorrow. In this situation love is equal to happiness.

No doubt, mutual love gives more pleasure than dreaming, but both kinds are important.

On the other hand, there is also plenty of things that can make you happy: your job, family, friendship, new possibilities when reaching wealth, proud for your children... all these and many other conceptions are the components of the happiness and love takes not the last place in it.

P.S. LOVE AND BE LOVED.

Kseniya

After hard day of working we are going to visit some good places. Like pizzas, disco, Mc Donalds, circus (maybe).

A big day of fun began!!!!

photo 1 ( it's worth seeing)

(sorry for russian flags, but this pic was so funny)

photo 2 (it's worth sseeing either)

Have fun!!!

photo 3 (clowns)

P.S. Don't worry, be HAPPY!

Kseniya

The first thing a wanted to share with you was a news that NOW I have 200 friends.

And the second is that yesterday I met a real american, Fred. He had a Klass with us. He told us about superfluous weight and his native state Arizona. It was so fun like he came from a theatre. Our lecturer wasn't so much delighted causeafter her klasses we are always sad and tired praying not to give as any hometask. Fred gave us an energy, made us laugh. I can't wait till next Wednesday comes.

And how are YOU, guys?????

Yes, alredy passed the second week of my new life.

I have heard a lot about this student's year ( the most unforgettable, sweet, lovely) but nobody told me that it would be so fast. I've done a lot of homework alredy, got a lot of books and knowledge, but I had never thought that it would be that fast.

I have classes of English, English Grammar, English Interpreting, Philology, Ancient Literature, History of Ukraine, Language Study and P.T. As you can see the last is the worst. What can be worse than P.T.? Today we ran 5 laps, it was terrible. I thought I would spit out my lungs. What a hurror is our P.T. teacher. An old, round object that thinks he's the centre of the whole Universe.

I wish all P.T. lessons were canceled.

But today is a great day, anyway. TGIF - Thanks God it's Friday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wish good luck and health! Love you all and miss you either.

Your Xeniya........*LOVE*

I've just came back from my summer holidays on the beautiful lake. I have great brown skin and good health.

I downloaded the first season of "Prison Break", now watching it 3 episodes a day. It's a great show. I wish I saw it earlier. Some parts make me fell dreadful (like cutting 2 fingers) but the other (love, faith, brotherhood, life in prison) super-super great!

I decided to say goodbye to tLost avatars 'cause I don't wanna create them anymore. Now I have new favourite shows and I want give them my attention and time.

And some photos of Wentworth Miller when he hadn't had his hair shawed (when I was looking for his pics I thought that he never had long hair):

Sorry, but I have a pic bug, and I can't post photos or avatars... So let's use links!

pic 1

pic 2

pic 3

pic 4

P.S. How do you do? hi to everyone)))))

Xenija......

If you are interested then you can enjoy the last Caption Contest's results:

For the picture #1:

Black_Grace: Saywer: Ok Kate you aim for his head and I will aim...lets just say down more to you know. (5 points for that one)

For picture #2:

JoeLostDharma: Meghan: This is the face I used to give Charlie when I was angry.
Claire: Funny, that's the face I use when Charlie is doing me!(5 points)

For picture #3:

didinuta: Sawyer: "I'm not afraid of smokey, I'm not afraid of smokey, I'm not afraid of smokey!"

For picture #4:

Mel-Belle: Sawyer: Come and get me.

Here are your points:

Katie_mkd: 9 points

Mel-Belle: 17 points

Black_Grace: 25 points

didinuta: 16 poinrs

LOSTismylife: 3 points

ACharmedJedi: 8 points

JoeLostDharma: 18 points

innocent007: 5 points

HaveSumFaith: 5 points

hahawhat: 4 points

olderable: 4 points

The points are great! I'm happy to see you in the list! Remember: it is not late to start. Big thanks to didinuta that after one contest made such a great step in 16 points! Great!!!!

I miss that times when i posted avatars for Lost fans, but the good like to come back!

Later will be posted the Caption Contest #5! Check it out!

P.S. How do you do?

love you All...

Xenija...........

1. Sexy actor Matthew McConaughey has made it to the top in a new list of Hollywood 'Beach Bums'. The 'Sahara' actor who regularly appears shirtless on Malibu Beach in Los Angeles, beat Paris Hilton and Cameron Diaz to claim the crown as king of the shore.

2. Superman Brandon Routh is settling down with lady love Courtney Ford this year. The couple is planning to exchange vows close to home, in the US. "We're getting married in the States," Routh told US Weekly. "We're not going to make anybody travel too far." The ceremony will reportedly take place in a couple of months.

3. Prison Break heartthrob Wentworth Miller has been in a serious relationship with another actor Luke McFarlane for the past six months. As many of you remembers, McFarlane previously dated Grey's Anatomy star T.R. Knight. A report claims, the handsome couple have been secretly dating for almost six months now but they've been very quiet about their relationship as Wentworth is not out of the closet. Things between the pair are so serious that the couple are talking about moving in together.Wentworth has previously denied rumours that he is gay.

4. English actor Jamie Bell is still nursing a broken heart after splitting with actress girlfriend Evan Rachel Wood, before she started dating Marilyn Manson. The Billy Elliott star, 21, started dating the 17-year-old beauty in 2005 after meeting on the set of Green Day's video "Wake Me Up When September Ends."The couple split shortly before Wood started dating the 38-year-old shock-rocker. Bell says, "It was difficult, because I was very much in love with her.

5. Hollywood actor Orlando Bloom now wants to settle down and have kids. It seems he's that desperate to find true love, he's looking for it on the internet. The handsome actor is worried most women are only interested in his fame and fortune, so to test their intentions he is using a friend's name and photograph to set up a profile on Facebook.com. The 30-year-old actor plans to get to know prospective dates by chatting online, before arranging to meet them in person. It's difficult sometimes to know whether girls like me, or the guy they see in Pirates Of The Caribbean,' he told contactmusic.com. This way I can get to know them from behind a disguise.' The actor, who ended a four year relationship with 'Superman Returns' star Kate Bosworth, is on the look out for 'Miss Right'. He said: "I'd like to live a proper family life - with a partner and kids. That's what it's all about, isn't it? I've had a crazy life, in many ways, and I realise now I want someone to share it with."

6. Britain's Daily Mirror newspaper is reporting that Leonardo DiCaprio, 32, and his Israeli model girlfriend Bar Rafaeli, 21, are expecting their first child together. Leo reportedly felt the fatherhood urge after his friend, 'Spider-Man' star Tobey Maguire celebrated the birth of his first child last November. A source told Britain's Daily Mirror newspaper: "He dotes on Tobey's little girl Ruby and has been asking him all about what it's like to being a dad." The couple's happy news comes shortly after reports Leo proposed to Bar, followed by a secret engagement party in Tel Aviv. Daily Mirror also suggests that they will have a private ceremony in Rafaeli's home country, before a bigger party in the US near the end of the year. However, Leo's publicist, Shawn Sachs, has publicly denied the report, "The Mirror report is complete bullsh*t. 100% made up," he said.

7. Jesse Metcalfe has voluntarily gone into rehab to fight against alcohol issues. The 28-year-old who shot to fame playing hunky gardener John Rowland in Desperate Housewives reportedly checked in after a week of heavy partying. A representative for the actor confirmed the reports yesterday morning and asked for the press to respect his privacy while he battles his drink demons, according to the New York Post. The statement says, "On Monday, Jesse Metcalfe entered a rehab facility to deal with alcohol issues. He realized he had a problem and was anxious to deal with it immediately. The actor hopes that the media will allow him the privacy to deal properly with his treatment." News of Metcalfe's stint in rehab comes just days after rumours began to circulate about the actor's proposal to Nadine Coyle.

All gossips where found in Internet so... they can be false..or real....!

Thanks for attention! Very soon.... the results of Caption Cantest! You will be the first to know!

Xenija....love you...

My city that has never differed with high temperatures (38-42 C) is now like a frying pan. 3 days ago the 14 tank-tracks with the yellow phosphoric acid ran off the rails. Now everyone is afraid of going out and we all sit at home and die from heat.

Am I dreaming.....?

Guys today is the last day when you can add your thought about the caption contest! Hurry! In 2-3 hours the results will be posted!

Love you all.....

As everyone knows that the wedding ended bad. Joe used to ask many girl ( I counted just 3 but who knows if they were more) if they could marry him. But the party was great. Nothing was left of food and my happy to think about making some girls group to have a little party named "I DON'T NEED A MAN". I don't wanna hurt feelings of another guys-male...but today is the second party (without male!!!!).

P.S. I'm going to make some casting for boys that want to be my husband, as I'm not planning to be single.

Ladies I'm throwing the bouqet:

The bouqet went to Black_Grace, Stephanie2007, Innocent, Didinuta, Glostlover, Lostismylife, Athevolunteer. Every lady got her own bouqet. 7 ladies on the party 7.07.2007. It's luck!!!!!!!!!!

Here are the bouqets:

Black_Grace's (Amy's):

Steff's bouqet:

Innocent007's (Ann's) bouqet:

Didinuta's bouqet:

Glostlover's bouqet:

Lostismylife's bouqet:

Athevolunteer's bouqet:

I think it will be a great party! You can bring something of food you like! We will drink alcohol and discuss this boys or otherwise we will forget about them!

*I DON'T NEED A MAN*

Is that a huge peice of luck or what?

On this day many weddings are planned. Everyone know that Joe asked me to marrry him. And now I'm standing at the halo and waiting for my fiance. He is a bit late. But I think I can wait for couple of hours. The gests are gathering and the food is melting before everyone's eyes.

Where are you Joe?

Everyone can sit and choose something to eat!

The food:

Who wants to catch the wedding bouqet?

Oh, yes! My 50th blog! It's awesome. Sorry but today no pics and icons I wanted to spend this day without any actions and postings but receiving your congratulations. I just worry about that thing that I wanted to show you my graduating photos but then I remember that I can only post pics from other sites. Please help me to post them! How can I do it?

P.S. The blog isn't really so celebrating but I wish you you had funny mood. It's the Kiss Day. I wish you all kissed more and more often!!!!! *kissing you*

Xenija.............

Thanks to Kaluka. Now I can show myself:

THAT'S ME AND MY FRIENDS

Icons, avatars... you cancall these cool pictures wharever you want I just like find them and post for you my dear friends so..here they are..

and my favourite:

P.S.: every wish that u told me will came true in next blog that will be Celebrating blog 'cause I will have one more icon "50 Jurnail Articles" (or something like that). I'll wait on YOU!

xenija........

Do u remember I wrote about your wishes that would came true if you told me what icons you want? Iread those wishes and here they are:

1.) Smalville:

2.) Prison Break:

3.) Buffy:

4.) Some actors' and movies' icons:

P.S. Your wishes still can come true, just wish!

In next blog you will see my photos from graduating party. Check it out!

Xenija........................