Why!?
Why the hell do I have to feel bad about telling things I do. I just want to have fun with friends that I haven't seen is so long. Why is it my problem that you had a thing with that friend. I just want t o chill and have a good time, but no I can't. I can't have a good time with drinking or anything that we do, because I always have to think about what you think and what you feel. I'm getting very depressed about all the things that have been going on and I don't know if I can handle it. I have my problems that I have to deal with, even though they might be has much, but I still have **** that goes through my mind that **** with it and I don't know if I can still handle your **** too. I feel that I can't be the same person around you and I can't listen to the same music without you breaking down. Why can't I have my friend back? I want the one that was fun and chill to hang out with. It kills me that I have to see the person I love go threw this **** and i can't help. I want you to get over the **** that has happened to you so we can have the good times that we had before, but I know that won't happen, since what happened to you is something I have never gone threw. I also want to be able to hangout with the friend(s) that give you the emotional feeling that you get, since they are my friends too and I wish that I didn't feel so bad about doing it. Why can't I just hang out with you or them with out feeling bad? Why did this have to happen? I want things to go back to the way things were. I can't go a day without thinking about the things that WE have gone through. Speaking of that I just listen to Zao- An Angle Without Wings and I couldn't help but cry over the fact of what you did and what I feel about you and What you have said and shown me. I didn't even want to tell you want I was going to do, since I knew what it was going to do to you. See that's what I mean, I just want to be able to talk the **** to you and not feel as if I bring something up that will **** up the night. I just want to be able to say whatever and not seem as if I'm being a ultra-dick. Why can't I bring up movie quotes without you getting all but hurt? Why can't I not buy you beer without you getting all butt hurt out it.
All I want is my friend back.
Why can't I have that?
All I want is my friend back.
Why can't I have that?
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If not that then I can help you suggesting things better if you could be more clear and non cryptic
Well during my school days, my best friend and another one of my good friends had huge fights and almost hated each other, but even then I have been their friend ever since then. talking to both and having fun with both. Both know that I am friends with the other. I used to talk and do different things with each and enjoy. As long as you behave nicely with the person without thinking anything or having a "moment of silence" when you mention some quote it doesnt matter.
Just behave like you dont care and start having fun and always cheering your friend, incase you think he might have felt sad ater you said that thing. Then the friend will realize that you are still the same person, behaving just like before, hence nothing has changed.
So if you keep being the same without worrying too much (and ofcourse without saying something too obvious) the friend will realize that nothing has changed and after a few days or some time will definitely get back to normal. It is you who has to just keep cheerful and enjoy yourself and make your friend also enjoy by making him forget other things.
You both are together because you feel that you will have a good time and enjoy yourself when you are together, it doesnt matter what you do in your own time. you are not planning to kill him. you are just having your own life. No one should decide how you should behave, be yourself and keep enjoying and make the other have fun. If the other person is not responding and talking properly. even after many days, Just talk to him seriously and ask him what the problem is and if thinks that "its not the same" if you are friends with someone who broke his heart etc etc.
tell him to think like a human being and not some scripted movie, have a brain and grwo some common sense and make him understand that you are still the same because nothing has changed in the way you behave after you've been friends with the other person.
Well.. yeah, that's all I can say with the vague data you gave. but if you could be exact.. I can help you. I study human behaviour and reactions and do things. I would love to see if it could help one of my friends