There has been this pattern in my life and I don't know if there is something I can do about it.

The thing is that allmost all my friends have something wrong with them,

my friends have all these things wrong with them, one lives on the other side of the world, one will have to move to the other side of the world in a couple of months, one has crones didease, one is anorexic, one has a mental condition which makes her make up stuff which she thinks are true, one ran away from home and resently her brother committed suicide, ones father just turned up after beeing missing for two days and he had left a note saying he couldn't cope with everything anymore, than there is all the stuff witch my dad, my mom developed heart problems three weeks ago, my sister is having a hard time with everything here at home,

do I attract trouble or something?

are there any normal people in the world?